Synthetic Love: Married to a Doll

Davecat lives with his wife and mistress, both dolls, and thinks synthetic partners are ideal for those who don’t want to deal with humans’ inconsistencies. (Atlantic article.)

Davecat met his future wife, Sidore Kuroneko at a goth club in 2000, so the story goes. The less romantic but perhaps more true version is that he saved up for a year and a half to buy her online. She cost about $6,000.

Sidore is a RealDoll, manufactured by Abyss Creations in the shape of a human woman. She is covered in artificial skin made of silicone, so she’s soft. These high-end, anatomically correct—even equipped with fake tongues—love dolls (or capital-D Dolls) are ostensibly made for sex. But 40-year-old Davecat (a nickname acquired from videogames that he now prefers to go by) and others who call themselves iDollators see their dolls as life partners, not sex toys. Davecat and Sidore (or, as he sometimes calls her, Shi-chan) obviously aren’t legally married, but they do have matching wedding bands that say “Synthetik [sic] love lasts forever,” and he says they’re considering some sort of ceremony for their 15th anniversary.

Davecat considers himself an activist for synthetic love, and the rights of synthetic humans, such as Shi-chan. He’s active online, with an iDollator blog, “Shouting to hear the echoes,” that he updates regularly, and has appeared on TLC’s show My Strange Addiction, as well as in a BBC documentary called Guys and Dolls.

According to the backstory of Davecat’s relationships, his Doll mistress (and Sidore’s girlfriend), Elena Vostrikova, saw Davecat and Sidore in Guys and Dollsand moved from Russia to be with them. Davecat purchased Elena, or Lenka, in 2012, and the three of them now share a one-bedroom apartment in southeastern Michigan.

Commentary on this at Modern Mythology: Doll House Narratives

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  • Matt Staggs
    • American Cannibal

      How can I imbed videos to the comments like this?

  • Frenchica

    “Divide & Conquer”.

    Still, I can relate to having a cold bitch mother

  • Bluebird_of_Fastidiousness

    One interesting feature of the material is that silicone remains durable past 600 F so these dolls are probably oven safe.

    • InfvoCuernos

      yikes, that is some hot snapper!

  • InfvoCuernos

    If you are going to blow $6000+ to avoid entanglement in relationships, why not just get a hooker when you’re horney? Hell, you could even take out to eat without people looking at you like you’re a freak.

    • Frenchica

      The average hooker has been ‘used’ by hundreds of men ; this type of control-freak nerd wants a girlfriend that’s been born just for him, and who/which won’t be touched by anybody else, ever.

      She won’t cheat on him, or leave him, or laugh at him ( if a human woman did one of those to him perhaps he’d react violently?…)

      Anyway – an escort charging 300$ a visit takes him to 6 grand in no time, the doll’s a better deal

      • InfvoCuernos

        You’ve obviously never had a $50 blowjob. That’s gotta be better than humping a doll.

        • Frenchica

          Well, if you were an obsessive techno-boy : even a protected bj would seem risky and overall disgusting because so many other guys have used that mouth.

          What if I tell you that a doll-loving man is likely one with idealistic and romantic traits, closer to a girl’s than a man’s. A whore is too low for him, whores are alright for you, different cultures, different times.
          ( These dolls are mostly popular in the Asian market,
          obviously )

    • Juan

      Hooray for hookers!

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