The Rise Of The Pro-Orgasm Movement

PIC: Gene Bilbrew (PD)

PIC: Gene Bilbrew (PD)

Yeah, but does that mean that there’s an anti-orgasm movement? I mean, besides the Southern Baptist girl I dated in high school.

Via The Atlantic:

Wearing a red mini dress and stilettos, Nicole Daedone slips into an apron. “I wear an apron because I’ve ruined all my dresses with lube at this point,” she jokes. A small blonde woman clad in black comes out and joins Daedone on stage. We are in the Scottish Rite Center, a masonic temple in downtown Oakland, California. The massive columned room is packed with people of all ages, shapes, and sizes. They have been dancing, yelling out. Call this the orgasm revival.

A massage table with cushions is carried onto the stage. “A demo is fundamentally a celebration,” quips Daedone. She pulls on a pair of rubber gloves. The blonde woman climbs onto the table, takes off her pants, spreads her legs, and the demo begins.

Nicole Daedone is the founder of One Taste—a business dedicated to teaching “orgasmic meditation,” or “OM.” This was the keynote opening to the OMX 2014 Unconditional Sex: Entering the Flow State conference last weekend. In front of a crowd of just more than 700 people (plus a telecasting), Daedone proceeded to bring the woman on stage to a state of orgasmic bliss using a complex stroking technique that she has learned from a lifetime of spiritual and sexual training. She gave the crowd a taste of what she terms an “unapologetically asymmetrical” practice that focuses unilaterally on the female orgasm as a means of finding deeper connection to the body, the divine, and each other.

“We women are prone to exaggeration,” she told the crowd. “You want to learn to bring her to a state where nothing can be faked. … We aim for a state of involuntarily being turned on—swelling of the lips, darkening of the eyes, crying.”

The conference, a three day event hosting speakers ranging from Naomi Wolf, author of Vagina and New York Times bestselling author Steven Kotler to a BDSM expert named Cléo DuBois and Dr. Jenny Wade, an expert on transcendental sex, was as much a meeting place as it was revival or cultish festival. The lectures were punctuated by raffles, dance parties, and every hour, on the hour, the option to OM—to practice the orgasm meditation that brought all these names together. “Most of us have an incredibly limited understanding of what orgasm can be,” Daedone explained.

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  • Anarchy Pony

    … awesome!

  • Ted Heistman

    I have friend who is an OM coach

    • BuzzCoastin

      Holding hands at midnight
      ‘Neath a starry sky…
      Nice work if you can get it
      And you can get it — if you try.
      Strolling with the one girl
      Sighing sigh after sigh…
      Nice work if you can get it
      And you can get it — if you try
      Who could ask for anything more?

  • BuzzCoastin

    debauchery pays
    and fun too

  • jasonpaulhayes

    You know the story of the Tortoise and the Hare? The opposite of that is a winners strategy for orgasms… slow a steady but I always stop just short of the finish because its important to me that you finish first.

    • Anarchy Pony

      Wait, who’s which?

      • emperorreagan

        I went to the pet store to try to find out.

        They asked me to leave when I started playing Marvin Gaye on my cell phone after dropping a rabbit in with the turtles.

        Now we’ll never know.

  • Craig Bickford

    At a Masonic Lodge no less, I guess James Shelby Downard wasn’t so crazy after all.

  • marshall

    Matt Staggs, it is clear that you have never really dated a southern baptist girl..

    • Matt Staggs