Julian Walker wrote this excellent overview of New Age flakiness, and gives some corrective measures.
via Elephant Journal:
I am passionate about the relationships between three things:
> inquiry-based practices (yoga, meditation, bodywork and ecstatic dance happen to be my favorites)
> critical thinking (also called “viveka” in yogic parlance, or discriminating wisdom)
> and shadow work (after Jung – the psychological idea that we have a “shadow” that is where we hide the emotions, experiences, thoughts and aspects of self that we would rather not face. Shadow work then is the process of courageously turning inward to bring honest awareness and compassionate attention to this place.)
Having been a yoga teacher for the last 18 years, and having spent my adult life swimming in the waters of popular spirituality, my sense is that more often than not these three elements are missing both in theory and practice. My sense is that this comes down to one revelatory observation.